The Art of Forgiving Yourself

In the ever-evolving world, the art of forging genuine connections remains timeless. Whether it’s with colleagues, clients, or partners, establishing a genuine rapport paves the way for collaborative success.

If you are anything like me, you might hold yourself to such a high standard – that impairs our ability to truly live in the moment.

It can be so easy to feel like all the “bad” or negative experiences we have – may be deserved, and that the positive ones are just “luck”. However, once we realize we ourselves are the sole proprietor of these walls, we have an opportunity to transform.

If we ever desire to be a high vibrational being, there must be some level of ascending the density of self loathing. Ultimately it resides in a place with ego, and insecurity.

These things aren’t inherently “bad”, but methods to keep us safe. Safety in our own bubble – built from experiences, upbringings, and desires.

One thing I’ve discovered is the power of forgiving myself.

Now, – there is a time and a place for this- we must honor when accountability should be exercised vs when to utilize this method for deep forgiveness. If that’s not where you’re at, that’s no problem. But those who can understand this- know how to proceed forward.

The only person we are ever cheating is ourselves – if we are too scared to really face our own reflection- for everything we are and everything we are not.

Forgiveness is the beautiful wand to propel forward movement in owning ones life.

That is the beauty of starting to live through a direct line to your best vision. There is a constant wind of accountability, it is less of a punishment and more of a powerful place to feel accountable for your life, your decisions, and lessons.

To unlock forgiving of ones self – you may be surprised by how many other blocks in life are lifted simultaneously.

We are allowing ourselves to be forgiven for what we have been to fearful to acknowledge.

We are all able , and we all hold the innate level of love and adoration that we place upon a newborn soul.

Life, experiences, drama, and trauma all try and deter us from this universal truth. Forgiving ourselves is not an easy way out- it is a tool to assist us in being able to take on a new perspective of life and experiences- while allowing us to move confidently through life.

Just because we allow our mars to be lifted from our souls, does not mean others have to. And that is a truth we must accept. True forgiveness is not dependent on “this/or that”. It is from a place that is trying to allow us to be accountable, and taught.

EXERCISE: These are phrases that when utilized at the right time can be so incredibly powerful. – While looking in the mirror you can recite these, or even write them out and let them be seen through the power of written word.

Dear *self* : I forgive you, and I let this move on

Dear *self* : I forgive you, and I let us move in peace

Dear *self* : I forgive you, and I thank you for my lesson